{"id":176,"date":"2016-01-04T16:09:28","date_gmt":"2016-01-04T14:09:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/?p=176"},"modified":"2019-03-25T12:35:46","modified_gmt":"2019-03-25T09:35:46","slug":"kompleksli-arkadaslar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/?p=176","title":{"rendered":"KOMPLEKSL\u0130 ARKADA\u015eLAR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"margin-bottom: 19.5pt; line-height: 18.3pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11.5pt; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; color: #ffffff;\">Ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn eski bir arkada\u015f\u0131mla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131m,uzun zamand\u0131r g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015femiyorduk,bir yerde oturup parlatal\u0131m dedik,sohbet koyu,uzun y\u0131llar g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in eskilerden girdik tam yenilerden \u00e7\u0131karken arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc,ne oldu o\u011flum dedim,ba\u015flad\u0131 anlatmaya yakla\u015f\u0131k yirmi iki senedir bir firmada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f alt\u0131 ay \u00f6nce emeklili\u011fini vermi\u015f emekli olmu\u015f,o\u011flum ya\u015f\u0131n \u00e7ok gen\u00e7 neden emekli oldum diye sordum, y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00e7ok yoruldum otuz be\u015f senedir \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum,inan art\u0131k insan g\u00f6rmekten,telefon sesi duymaktan nefret ediyorum,y\u0131llard\u0131r hep insanlara u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131m,ama \u015fimdiki insanlarla eski insanlar \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 olmu\u015f,hele ki y\u0131llard\u0131r beraber \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak zorunda oldu\u011fun,iki y\u00fczl\u00fc insanlara y\u0131llard\u0131r katlanmak inan \u00e7ok zormu\u015f.Oynamaktan s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m art\u0131k \u00f6yle bir hale geliyorsun ki ki\u015fili\u011finden \u00f6d\u00fcn verme noktas\u0131na geliyorsun i\u015fte o nokta son nokta oluyor dedi.Peki o\u011flum hepsimi iki y\u00fczl\u00fcyd\u00fc diye sordum yok ya hepsi de\u011fil \u00e7ok iyi dostluklar\u0131mda oldu,ama bir iki tane ibne her yer de \u00e7\u0131kar ben onlardan bahsediyorum dedi,insanlar\u0131n arkas\u0131ndan at\u0131p tutarlar ama kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131nca bir bakars\u0131n arkas\u0131ndan konu\u015fan o ki\u015fi de\u011fil bamba\u015fka biri oluvermi\u015fler,bunlar\u0131 beraber ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a anlayabiliyorsun,asl\u0131nda bu tutumlar\u0131yla kendilerini \u00f6yle bir ele veriyorlar ki senin bu insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131man i\u00e7in bir \u00e7aba sarfetmene gerek kalm\u0131yor,ama bunlarla ma\u011flesef \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak zorunda kal\u0131yorsun,ben bunlardan b\u0131kt\u0131m kendilerini bir bok san\u0131yorlar egolar\u0131,pisikolojik rah\u0131ts\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 ukalal\u0131klar\u0131,kompleksleri hepsi bir yere kadar \u00e7ekiliyor,asl\u0131nda bunlar kendilerini \u00e7ok tilki zannediyorlar ama bilmiyorlar ki, ben tilki,d\u00f6n\u00fcp dola\u015f\u0131p d\u00fckkana geri d\u00f6nmesin diye d\u00fckkan\u0131 yakanlardan\u0131m.Peki o\u011flum haklar\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131n m\u0131..? Dedim ya kendilerini bir bok zannediyorlar oyalama takti\u011fi,egolar\u0131n\u0131 tatmin ediyorlar,mast\u0131rbasyon yap\u0131yorlar onlarda b\u00f6yle mutlu oluyorlar.Peki ne olacak o zaman..? Tatmin olsunlar bakar\u0131z bir \u00e7aresine. Valla o\u011flum ne diyeyim bu ibnelerden \u00e7evremizde \u00e7ok var hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131 olsun dedim konuyu kapatt\u0131m.Gelecekten konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k b\u00f6yle insanlardan uzak olmak \u00fczere ve sa\u011fl\u0131\u011fa kadeh kald\u0131rd\u0131k. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 19.5pt; line-height: 18.3pt;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11.5pt; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif;\">30.KASIM.2015 \u00a0 \u00a0 BODRUM<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn eski bir arkada\u015f\u0131mla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131m,uzun zamand\u0131r g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015femiyorduk,bir yerde oturup parlatal\u0131m dedik,sohbet koyu,uzun y\u0131llar g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in eskilerden girdik tam yenilerden \u00e7\u0131karken arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc,ne oldu o\u011flum dedim,ba\u015flad\u0131 anlatmaya yakla\u015f\u0131k yirmi iki senedir bir firmada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f alt\u0131 ay \u00f6nce emeklili\u011fini vermi\u015f &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/?p=176\">Okumaya devam et <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=176"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":570,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176\/revisions\/570"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}