{"id":532,"date":"2019-02-04T21:13:02","date_gmt":"2019-02-04T18:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/?p=532"},"modified":"2019-03-23T16:22:26","modified_gmt":"2019-03-23T13:22:26","slug":"karar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/?p=532","title":{"rendered":"KARAR VERMEK LAZIM"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Karar ; sonuca ba\u011flanmas\u0131 gerekli bir olayda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, tart\u0131\u015farak, ara\u015ft\u0131rarak verilen kesin h\u00fck\u00fcm veya yarg\u0131d\u0131r.Yada yapmak istedi\u011fini ortaya koyan son bildiri olarak&#8217;da tan\u0131mlanabilir .Karar vermek insan hayat\u0131n&#8217;da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir, asl\u0131nda \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz karar vermekle ge\u00e7iyor, her verece\u011fimiz karar hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ciddi olarak etkilemektedir \u00f6rne\u011fin sabah kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda i\u015fe giderken ne giyece\u011fine karar vermek zorundas\u0131n al sana dakika bir, gol bir, sonras\u0131 hangi parf\u00fcm, hangi ruj, hangi k\u00fcpe, hangi kravat derken b\u00f6yle s\u00fcr\u00fcp gider sonra ne yiyece\u011fine karar vermek zorundas\u0131n bu g\u00fcn ne yemek yapsam acaba..d\u0131\u015far\u0131da yesen, men\u00fc gelir bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc se\u00e7emezsin ne yesem,ne yesem..! sonu\u00e7&#8217;da hep bir karar a\u015famas\u0131nday\u0131z&#8217;d\u0131r. Sonra sosyal hayatta hangi film, hangi bar, hangi restoran, hangi kul\u00fcp derken ne i\u00e7ece\u011fine dair bir kara vermek zorundas\u0131n, bir duble rak\u0131 daha i\u00e7ersen belki bozulacak&#8217;s\u0131n,belki&#8217;de soda limon i\u00e7ersen bozulmayacak&#8217;s\u0131n, ama senin karar\u0131n yapacak bir \u015fey yok, sonu\u00e7ta hep bir karar mekanizmas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7indeyiz. Bunlar hem bireysel hem&#8217;de min\u00f6r kararlar birde maj\u00f6r kararlar var,ikinci ve \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slar\u0131&#8217;da etkileyen \u00f6rne\u011fin evlilik karar\u0131 almak gibi,ayr\u0131l\u0131k karar\u0131 almak gibi, meslek se\u00e7imi gibi, paran\u0131 alt\u0131na veya vadeli hesaba yat\u0131rma gibi, hisse senedi alma gibi,yada e\u015finin, ya annen ya ben demesi gibi,\u00f6fkeyle,k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131kla bir anda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden al\u0131nan kararlar gibi, yani kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131z kendi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kararlar \u00fczerinde durmaktad\u0131r. Yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131yla do\u011frusuyla \u00f6denecek bir bedel varsa\u00a0 kimseye bok atmayal\u0131m, bu bedeli aslanlar gibi kendimiz \u00f6deyelim. Yanl\u0131\u015f kararlar verip\u00a0 k\u00f6t\u00fc bedeller \u00f6demek istemiyorsak , biraz ara\u015ft\u0131ral\u0131m, okuyal\u0131m, dan\u0131\u015fal\u0131m,d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim, sinirliyken ve \u00e7ok acele karar vermeyelim, duygular\u0131m\u0131za g\u00fcvenelim, ayr\u0131nt\u0131lara bo\u011fulmayal\u0131m, bence en \u00f6nemlisi vicdan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sesine g\u00f6re karar verelim, b\u00f6yle yaparsak insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koruruz, akl\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6re karar verirsek \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koruruz. Yanl\u0131\u015f kararlar al\u0131nca&#8217;da kader utans\u0131n diye, su\u00e7u hep kaderin \u00fczerine atmayal\u0131m\u00a0 , birazda biz ders \u00e7\u0131karal\u0131m, gerekti\u011finde \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemeyi&#8217;de bilelim, akl\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kullanal\u0131m, hele,hele karars\u0131z hi\u00e7 olmayal\u0131m..<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>04.\u015eUBAT.2019\u00a0 \u00a0BODRUM<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Karar ; sonuca ba\u011flanmas\u0131 gerekli bir olayda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, tart\u0131\u015farak, ara\u015ft\u0131rarak verilen kesin h\u00fck\u00fcm veya yarg\u0131d\u0131r.Yada yapmak istedi\u011fini ortaya koyan son bildiri olarak&#8217;da tan\u0131mlanabilir .Karar vermek insan hayat\u0131n&#8217;da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir, asl\u0131nda \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz karar vermekle ge\u00e7iyor, her verece\u011fimiz karar hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ciddi &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/?p=532\">Okumaya devam et <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/532"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=532"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/532\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":565,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/532\/revisions\/565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetmumcu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}